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Respect Others
Every child of God has a fundamental right to be treated with respect. The
savior said, "Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of
these my brethren, ye have done it unto me" (Matt. 25:40). The need for
respect is readily apparent when we look at the effect our actions have on
behavior by posing the question, "What if everyone in society did
this?" Members of the BYU community might well ask themselves a similar
question: "What would this community be like if everyone was treated
like I treat others?"
The way we treat others shows how we value them as people and as brothers and
sisters. Every member of the university community is expected to treat others
in a way that will foster the Spirit of the Lord and contribute to the
well-being of everyone else at BYU and in the community.
Respecting Others in the Classroom
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Professors and students alike deserve our courtesy; we listen as others speak
and attend to other rules of decorum.
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Respect is demonstrated by our language, courtesy, and demeanor. Before
reporting noncompliance to the Honor Code Office, we should discuss the
situation with those we deem disrespectful.
Respecting Roommates and Landlords
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Roommates deserve our respect which we demonstrate by controlling the volume
of our entertainment, the observance of housing standards, and fostering of a
clean, wholesome living environment.
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Landlords deserve our respect which we demonstrate by the care we give to
their property, avoiding unnecessary wear and tear, seeking permission before
hosting guests overnight, and observing all aspects of our written and verbal
contracts with them.
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We should remember that any form of noncompliance is a breach of our word of
honor.
Residential Living Standards and Single Student Housing Policy
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The university expects single students, whether they live on or off campus, to
adhere to the Residential Living Standards (Undergraduate Catalog).
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Minor violations of the Residential Living Standards are generally not handled
through the Honor Code Office; persons wishing to make referrals are
encouraged to work with housing managers, ecclesiastical leaders, and
roommates, before the problems escalate to the level that the Honor Code
Office becomes involved.
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On-campus visiting hours vary in different housing areas, but essentially
require visitors of the opposite sex to leave by 12 midnight on every night
except Friday, when they may remain until 1:30 a.m. Students should determine
when visiting hours begin in the mornings.
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Off-campus visiting hours begin at 9 a.m., and they specify that visitors of
the opposite sex must leave the apartments no later than midnight except for
Fridays when they extend till 1:30 a.m. Landlords are authorized to restrict
these hours if they desire.
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Members of the opposite sex should never enter the bedroom or other private
areas of an apartment; their visits should be limited to more appropriate
areas such as the kitchen or living room.
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Entering the bedroom of a person of the opposite sex to study, to type a
paper, to talk privately, or for any other reason never justifies the breach
of one's word of honor and contractual agreements.
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Though students stay in the apartments of members of the opposite sex beyond
authorized visiting hours for reasons that have no sexual undertones,
honorable students will respect all residents in the apartment and not impose
their need to visit above the contractual rights of others.
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Students who fail to comply with the residential living standards are usually
placed on probation or suspended.
Respecting Property
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Property is the possession of one or more individuals, so respect for property
demonstrates respect for others.
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We care for the possessions of others as we would care for our own, perhaps
even showing greater care for the property of others than we show for our own.
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The property of the university merits our respect as well, so we avoid
graffiti, abuse of lawns and grounds, marring of surfaces, making of trails,
etc.
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We use property only with permission for the purpose and with the limits
intended.
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